Applying the Golden Rule

"So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets" (Matthew 7:12). These words from Jesus are often referred to as the Golden Rule, and they remind us of a powerful truth: how we treat others is a reflection of our Christlikeness. This is the essence of the Law and the Prophets. In other words, the entire message of Scripture hinges on these two commands: love God and love people.

Our love for God should naturally overflow into love for those around us. This love isn’t something we can manufacture on our own; it’s a love that Jesus Himself empowers us to live out. He calls us to a standard that surpasses the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, a standard that can only be achieved through the power of the Holy Spirit within us.

So, how do we apply this teaching in our daily lives? How do we evaluate our love for others in light of this Golden Rule? Here are three practical points to consider:

1. We Don’t Get to Choose Our ‘Others’
Jesus’ command to “do also to them” refers to all others, not just those we like or are close to. No one in your life is there by accident. Often, we’re quick to identify our own needs and empathize with our own situations, but true Christlike love compels us to do the same for others, even those who are difficult to love.

2. Our Love Isn’t Conditional
The Golden Rule isn’t about loving others so they’ll love us back. It’s about reflecting Christ’s love, which is unconditional. Jesus loves us regardless of our response, and we are called to love others in the same way. Their reaction shouldn’t determine our love for them.

3. Love Is Active, Not Passive
Loving others as Jesus commands requires action. It starts at home with those closest to us and extends outward. This kind of love is messy and takes effort, but it’s the love Jesus modeled for us. He entered our mess to show us His love, and we are called to do the same for others.

Living out the Golden Rule is a daily challenge, but as we grow in our love for God, our capacity to love others will grow as well. Let’s strive to reflect Christ’s perfect love in every interaction, knowing that He empowers us to live out this command.

Questions for further discussion and reflection
•How does an active and vibrant prayer life influence our ability to love others selflessly?
•What are some ways that our culture distorts the Golden Rule to justify self-interest rather than selflessness? How can we guard against these distortions in our own lives?
•How does pursuing God urgently and resting in His goodness shape our relationships with others?
•How does understanding Jesus’ fulfillment of the Law change the way we view and apply the Golden Rule?
•How does your love for God influence the way you love and serve others? Can you identify areas in your life where this connection could be strengthened?